For you were called for freedom, brothers. But do not use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh; rather, serve one another through love. For the whole law is fulfilled in one statement, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you go on biting and devouring one another, beware that you are not consumed by one another. 

Galatians 5:13-15

St. Paul says living by God’s law of love leads to true freedom. But how do I know when I am loving myself as I should or just practicing self-absorption? When am I loving myself, or just being selfish and self-centered? In his letter to the Galatians, Paul is writing to a community struggling with this situation. Rather than supporting each other, they had become consumed by their own wants.

What Paul tells us is their love of self was viewed entirely as an opportunity to serve “the flesh” — their personal wants and feelings — and they had abandoned love and care for their souls and spirit in the process. The Galatians interpreted the law of loving oneself as a “me first” mentality that didn’t view caring for oneself for the sake of loving others better.

Today, ask yourself this question: Whom do I want to do a better job of loving? What steps can I take toward care of my soul and spiritual life so I can experience greater freedom and happiness in my relationships?